Virginity until marriage is the source
  of world’s harmony

Communicate to integrate!

Mission Statement

The mission of the Virgins until Marriage  -  Civil Society Organization of  the African Union and the European Union (acronym: VM) is to promote a universal value of virginity until marriage with the "VIRGINITY MATTERS!" slogan supported by an effective reward system action for virginity protection and by protest against abuse, torture and humiliation of virgins. Virginity as the source of world’s harmony preserves morals, saves lives, decreases morbidity, boosts self-esteem, enhances careers, opposes slavery, counteracts crime, strengthens families, empowers communities, spares funds and therefore should be protected by all means available and not to a lesser extent than those pitiful and deadly ideas that violate human rights of the young ones of both genders and rob them of their unrenewable assets for profiteering or sheer pervert amusement. Virginophobia, i. e. the irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against virginity or virgins should be condemned and penalized, as well as the damage due to robbery of virginity fully compensated.

Percent of virgins among American teens:
15-17 years old and 18-19 years old child and adolescent boys and girls

Number of never-married males and  females 15-19 years of age who have never had sexual intercourse:
 United States, 1988, 1995, 2002, and 2006-2010
Source of numerical data:
Data from the National Survey of Family Growth
U.S. DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH AND HUMAN SERVICES
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
National Center for Health Statistics

Rationale

VM offers normal people (the helpless youth, worried parents and frustrated spouses among others) and their leaders a crucial solution for three menaces threatening both continents that the Mediterranean Sea touches. These are: demographic collapse, human rights violation, and disaster profiteering.

The epidemiological evidence is clear. AIDS decimating Sub-Saharan Africa and chlamydiasis destroying fertility in Europe result from promiscuous voluntary activeness of one fifth of adults.  Themselves victims of human rights violation ‘the walking sources of epidemics’ proliferate their traumas and attack more and more young people of both genders. They are encouraged and easily excused by a news and entertainment industry hostile to universal values and supportive to mass disaster profiteers: pornography and prostitution business organizers, prophylaxis and treatment suppliers, and social structure disintegration instigators, agents of influence among them.

Those who lose their virginity early are more likely to have multiple sexual partners, fuel epidemics and social pathologies.

Those who fight virginity with mockery, ridicule, and scorn are responsible for all the revealed and hidden harm they do.

A common sense type preventive measure to physical and moral abuses of individuals that add to mass disasters caused by promiscuity is raising the “herd immunity”, as it is called in epidemiological jargon, by promotion of a universal value of virginity until marriage. The VM mission priorities are endorsed by lessons learnt from African (i. e. South Africa, Uganda, Sierra Leone) and European (OURSELVES FOR OURSELVES Youth Peer Education Movement in Poland), experiences, as well as the SILVER RING THING program, which encourages young adults to remain as a virgin until marriage, until recently funded by the US federal government. Yes, we can! In Africa and Europe now.

Promiscuity

 
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relevant web page: www.healthriskmanagement.eu/vm.html

For the sake of the new millennium generations

The first new millennium born teens will celebrate their 13th birthday on January 1st, 2014. There are circa 1,500 days until  January 1st, 2014. Many of the tens of millions of year 2001 born children have been already irreversibly infected and mutilated, tortured physically and mentally, robbed of their virginity and converted to sex toys of perverts. But the vast majority are still waiting, unknowingly, for their chance to enter adulthood  spared from deadly disease and crippling disability. Within the 1,500 coming days let us become people of good will who really try hard to initiate the great shift of consciousness for the sake of the new millennium generations.

Dear friends,
Below, please find public health arguments to convince yourself, your loved ones, others like you, and the rest of the world.
Should you find your role in the VIRGINS UNTIL MARRIAGE -  CIVIL SOCIETY ORGANIZATION OF  THE AFRICAN UNION AND THE EUROPEAN UNION project promising/satisfying/profitable enough, please do not hesitate, dear friends, to use social networking tools (Click to join Virgins_until_Marriage).

dr Z Halat, medical epidemiology consultant, noxologist
Project designer, Virgins until Marriage  -  Civil Society Organization of  the African Union and the European Union
Chairman, The John Snow International Society for Common Sense in Public Health

 

 
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Epidemiology: 
the study (health surveys, observation, hypothesis testing, analytic research, and experiments)
of the distribution (analysis by time, place, and classes of persons affected)
and determinants (physical, biological, social, cultural, and behavioural factors that influence health)
of health-related states or events (diseases, causes of death, behaviour such as promiscuity, other social pathologies, reactions to preventive regimens) 
in specified populations (identifiable characteristics such as precisely defined numbers) 
and the application of this study to control health problems (to promote, protect, and restore health)
prof. J Last

Noxology:
Noxology, health hazards science, is a branch of epidemiology and is the scientific study of  harmful factors, taking into account a number of usually ignored aspects of the health hazards impact on humans, which include varied susceptibility of individuals (families, communities, nations) to a harmful factor acting alone or together with others, exhibiting a synergistic effects on health.  In noxology, the starting point of the diagnostic process is the cause of health-related states or events investigated on individual, family, community, national, or global level (compare: Posita causa, ponitur effectus and Nihil fit sine causa).
dr Z Halat

喜喜 ( 红双喜) DOUBLE HAPPINESS

If you have reached this stage of physical and mental development that allows you to make an informed choice and if you are in a position to decide for yourself,  you may choose between a short-lasting pleasure with a casual lover or eternal happiness with a perfect lover – your spouse.

THE CHOICE IS YOURS

The experience of the most successful nation, shared with the rest of the world
by Lin Di

 Lin Di Perfect Ghost   林 笛   完美鬼魂
专辑中文名: 秘密花园的邂 逅    歌手: 林笛
Album Chinese Name: Secret Garden Encounter  Singer: Lin Di

read here

该 专辑中有两 首歌，Perfect Ghost（完 美鬼 魂），说的是：上 天给每个人安排了一个完美的恋人，但并不是每个人都能够遇到那个人。当人们爱上了别人，那个原本属于他（她）的完美恋人就变成了鬼魂。有时候，或许还会相 会在梦里，或许在现实中感到若然所失，莫名地惦记某个不知名的灵魂。这是秘密花园的邂逅，不是每一分钟都会发生，不是每一步都能令人察觉，但只要你真诚地 希望，一些美妙的事情就会出现......

The album has two songs, Perfect Ghost（完 美鬼魂）that is: God gives everyone a perfect lover arranged, but not everyone can face that person.  When people fall in love with someone else, that originally belonged to him (her) the perfect lover becomes a ghost.  Sometimes, perhaps even meet in a dream, perhaps, in reality feel if I lost, but somehow misses the soul of an unknown. This is the secret garden of the encounter, not every minute will occur, not every step can be very aware of, but as long as you sincerely hope that some of the wonderful things that will appear ......

Album track 02: 喜 Happiness

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童贞直到结婚是男人的荣誉
Virginity until marriage is a man's honour
 童 贞直到结婚是女人的骄傲
Virginity until marriage is a woman's pride

Trinh tiết là chìa khóa hạnh phúc vợ chồng!
Virginity is the key to happy couple!

Wreath – a primaeval depiction of female virginity

Wreath is a symbolic replica of the thickened, sleeve-like, redundant, fimbriated hymen and as such has been used for millennia to symbolize virginity in Slavic peoples, including indigenous inhabitants of the territory of Europe's oldest civilization (5,000 BC), eastward from the later German-Slavic boundary named by the Germans in the 9th century AD 'Limes Sorabicus'.

Dr Halat’s endless list of reasons to remain a virgin until marriage

Reason # 1
 Be yourself, know your rights and don’t let God deniers transform you into a piece of flesh.

A universal value of virginity until marriage is a spiritual obligation of two major world religions which are declared by more than half of citizens of the member countries of the African Union and the European Union (African population: 45.8% Muslims, 15.3% Roman Catholics; non-Eastern European population: 54.8% Roman Catholics, 4.3% Muslims), therefore a fundamental human right, freedom of religion of Muslims, Catholics, and any of affected spiritual minorities living on the territory of the two blocks is undoubtedly violated in all instances of abuse, torture and humiliation of virgins,  virginophobia, and robbery of virginity. Universal declarations of human rights provide a range of tools to protect  physical, moral and psychological integrity of virgins regardless of religion or beliefs. Human rights law provides the international standards to make judgments about individual responsibility for their violation. more

Dehumanization by coercion and Pavlovian conditioning.
Do not let them deprive you of physical, moral and psychological integrity of human person.

 
Anak-sex turismo ay isang tunay na mukha ng " liberalismo ".
Child-sex tourism is a real face of " liberalism " .

Reason # 2
Be safe, know the risks and don’t invite deadly diseases to ruin your and your future family’s life.

A prudent virgin is not suspected of being infected
with Sexually Transmitted Infections

Afro-European Sexually Transmitted Diseases Prevention Network
A-E STDs PN

A-E STDs PN

Promiscuitatea este nici o oportunitate, este doar lipsa de demnitate.
Promiscuity is no opportunity it is just lack of dignity.

 Reason # 3
Be reasonable, know what really works.

Higher levels of family religiosity, including parents’ beliefs, prayer and religious service practices, and the frequency of family participation in religious activities,  contribute to decreased sexual initiation among adolescents, older age at coitarche and indirectly to decreased sexual partners. Having a two-parent family and parents who encourage their children to avoid having sex are also associated with a decrease in sexual exposures. Abstinence programs encourage unmarried individuals to abstain from sexual activity as the best and only certain way to protect themselves from exposure to HIV and other sexually transmitted infections. Abstinence until marriage programs are particularly important for young people, as approximately half of all new infections occur in the 15- to 24-year-old age group.  Delaying a first sexual encounter can have a significant impact on the health and well-being of adolescents and on the progress of the epidemic in communities.  The younger that people are when having sex for the first time, the more susceptible they become to developing an STD. The risk of acquiring an STD also increases with the number of partners over a lifetime.  Immaturity of the cervix of the womb in teenagers and young women means that its protective barrier is weak and only 1 cell thick (30 - 40 cells thick in older women). During sexual intercourse, germs causing STIs get easily inoculated into the immature cervix. This is why non virgin girls under the age of 20 have higher rates of infection of HIV than older women or young men. AIDS (caused by HIV), cervical cancer (caused by high-risk HPVs types 16, 18, 31, 33, 35, 39, 45, 51, 52, 56, 58, 59, 66, 68, and 73 ), infertility, ectopic pregnancy and other complications of pelvic inflammatory disease (caused by chlamydial and other STIs) constitute a price of sexual intercourses under the age of 20. Montse Magadan became HIV positive when she lost her virginity, aged 16.  Prevention of cervical cancer can be achieved in one of two ways: preventing infection initially or detecting the precursors to cervical cancer and providing treatment. The former method is called primary prevention and can be accomplished by avoiding exposure to the virus through abstinence from sexual activity or through  mutual monogamy forever, provided both partners—not just one—are consistently monogamous and were not previously infected. Condoms provide only about 70% protection against HPV when used all of the time.  more

Manufactured sex toys can be cleansed. To some extent.
Human sex toys can't be cleansed. No way.

 Reason # 4
Be self-confident, know your privileges.

There is a large time gap between puberty and maturity. All of us are born as virgins, but normal people do not dispute over virginity of newborns.  The same normal people cast doubts on the value of virginity of immature teenagers who have not reached this stage of physical and mental development that  allows them to make an informed choice. Immature young people are privileged by laws protecting their undisturbed development and should be aware of their privileges since convicted pedophiles who rape minors and condemned ephebophiles who ruin lives of mid-to-late adolescents are just a tip of the iceberg of those who persuade, induce, entice, or coerce minor children and adolescents to engage in activities which shorten the inborn stage of virginity. Legal protection of virginity is nothing but a minimum national effort granted to virgins to protect their human rights and in fact legitimatises cruel exploitation of those young people who in spite of having reached the age of consent are still far (5 and many more years ahead) from being physically, mentally, and socially ready to take responsibility for their choices. Sound families, communities and nations strive to protect all developmental stages of their teenagers and young adults and support protection of virginity until marriage. These efforts are being undermined by discreditors of virginity who simply surrender to the culture of rape. Here is an example of counterproductive reasoning: “Another harmful cultural belief that makes women vulnerable to contracting HIV is the value placed on virginity. In some cultures, people believe that if a man has sex with a virgin woman, he will be cleansed of his infections. Young, virgin girls and women are at a higher risk of being raped by men influenced by this common misperception. These girls and women are especially vulnerable to HIV because of the distinct injuries that result from forced sexual activity and the likelihood that their perpetrators have had multiple sexual partners.” more

I'm a teen. Its obvious, I'm a virgin.

International Convention on the Rights of the Child
adopted by the UN General Assembly on 20 November 1989
a child means every human being below the age of eighteen years
Convention on the Rights of the Child
publicise - observe - defend

WORLD DAY
FOR THE PREVENTION OF VIOLENCE AGAINST VIRGINS
18th November

In the midst of the storm of the First World War, when she was only sixteen she sacrificed her life to God, killed by a Russian soldier as she resisted his advances. The war broke out in July 1914. In November the Russian army cleared the Vistula River. On November 10 they captured Tarnow and on November 17 they captured Zabawa and Wal-Ruda. The situation was getting dangerous; there were threats of confiscations so people were trying to hide their properties in the forest. Everyone was telling about Russian soldiers who were raping young women. Everyone was terrified.
At the first day of occupation a soldier came to Kozka's house but he left after having a meal. The next day, on November 18, at about 9 a.m. another armed Russian soldier came to their house. He asked about the Austrian army, he refused to have a meal and told Karolina and her father to go with them, allegedly to the commanding officer. He led them towards the forest but when they reached the edge of it, the soldier told Karolina's father to leave them and go back home. The terrorized man turned back, leaving his daughter alone with soldier. The witnesses of the imminent events were two boys coming back towards the village. They hid themselves behind the bushes and saw Karolina struggling with an assailant and running towards the swamps that turned out to be the rescue for her as they made the chase difficult for the soldier. He abandoned the chase when he saw that she fall dead of loss of blood. Her body was found only on December 4. The wounds she sustained do bear witness to the greatness of her suffering and show her heroic defence of her innocence and purity. A carefully prepared report describes thoroughly the place of her martyrdom and claims the intact virginity of the Martyr. Having imitated Christ already in her life, and always obedient to the will of God, in the last moments of her life she refused to sin and accepted her own death as the greatest  confirmation of her love of God. Thus Karolina was conformed to Christ in the shedding of her blood. (...) On June 30, 1986 in the presence of Pope John Paul II, the "decree of the martyrdom of the Servant of God, Karolina Kozka" was proclaimed. Her beatification took place on June 10, 1987, during the third pastoral visit of His Holiness to his native country, Poland. Since then the cult of the Blessed Karolina is spreading all over the world.  (...) Her relics were procured by numerous communities in USA, Kazakhstan, Peru, Chad, and Congo and many churches in Poland as well. She is the patron saint of the Diocese of Rzeszów as well as many parishes. The Blessed Karolina is regarded by most of people, parishioners and pilgrims as well, as the great example to people of the Third Millennium because of her humility, courage and trust in God. She is a sign for those who are looking for the way of salvation, who want to become a saint. She is the patron of youths and farmers. more Karolina Kozka life's story

痴漢は卑怯。
痴漢は決して軽微な犯罪 ではありません。
Chikan is dirty.
Molestation is never a minor crime.
女子高生「痴漢は卑怯 許さない、チカンを撲滅しましょう

VIRGINITY AND SOCIETY

 Reason # 5
Be secure, know the mutual committed love of husband and wife.

Apart from its holistic, spiritual, and emotional context, for men and women marriage means knowing what to expect, belonging to one's self-formed family, rasing happy children, and being helped in need.

The most important part of a Catholic wedding is the exchange of vows:
Groom: I, (name), take you, (name), to be my wife. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life.
Bride: I, (name), take you, (name), to be my husband. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life.
Muslim couples do not generally recite vows but rather listen to the words of the imam, or cleric, who speaks about the significance of the commitment of the marriage and the couple's responsibilities toward each other and Allah.  However, some Muslim brides and grooms do choose to also exchange vows:
Bride: "I, (name), offer you myself in marriage and in accordance with the instructions of the Holy Koran and the Holy Prophet, peace and blessing be upon him. I pledge, in honesty and with sincerity, to be for you an obedient and faithful wife."
Groom: "I pledge, in honesty and sincerity, to be for you a faithful and helpful husband."
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VIRGINITY UNTIL MARRIAGE  FRESHNESS SAFETY CAPS

  Virginity until marriage freshness safety caps: open with marriage vow

 

中国男希望处女新娘
Chinese men want virgin brides

 Reason # 6
Be smart, know the cunning foxes’ tricks to outsmart them.

Virgins seem easy prey for mischievous predators who exploit ruthlessly fundamental human needs of love, respect, intimacy and belonging, as well as strong sexual urges in minors, adolescents and not-yet-married adults.  A simple trick like hugging, especially for women, releases neurochemicals that can increase trust in the hugger. After a hug lasting 20 seconds, the brain produces oxytocin that turns on the trust response and dulls more critical judgment.  Touching on the shoulder, the side of the waist, arms or hands plays a similar role in seduce tactics. Generous compliments, series of jokes, humour, funny stories, suddenly discovered common interests and hobbies, all may lead to infatuation and its grave consequences. Experienced seducers view their victims as nothing but sex toys. They even pretend to be passionately in love with their prey until they get bored and find an easy excuse to cease  the relationship. The everlasting love suggestions and promises prove deceitful soon after the virgin gives up his or her unrenewable asset. Virginity robbing from immature virgins and virginity stealing from mature but still naive virgins are common crimes of deception which almost never get punished and redressed. Cunning foxes triumph over their victims with great self-satisfaction and are applauded by other human rights violators. Some serial devirginators use comically ridiculous arguments to manipulate their victims. Probably most stupid is here: “Humans are no better than other animals and hence can’t resist animal instincts". Someone who can't tell the difference between humans and animals is a soul denier and is far more wrong than hymen deniers, since a congenital absence of hymen exceptionally occurs, however is extremely rare as a part of severe genital  malformations (ICD-10: Q52.0 Congenital absence of vagina, Q52.7 Congenital absence of vulva). Judging 'better' humans or animals, forgetting elaborated courtship rituals in animals, not realizing differences in brain size and functioning of humans and bonobo chimpanzees, say a lot about those who use such arguments to take the virginity of the human person. Luckily, mature virgins are smarter and know how to dismiss such as nonsense. Smart virgins know the science behind gender dimorphism which is physical and behavioral differences associated with sex. more

Virginity and devirginization: first sexual intercourse is the most memorable milestone of human development from birth to death.

If you loved me truly you'd wait until we're married.

 Reason # 7
Be assertive, know how to love yourself so you know what pleases and hurts.

Do people hate you, humiliate you, ridicule you? That's not important. God loves you! There are at least two reasons why God loves you so much. First, it is His nature to love. God is love. Love is the word that best describes God's nature. Second, you are His creation. God loves you just as good earthly parents love their offspring. People may not seem very special to others, but to their mother and father they are always special. This should help you understand how God could really like you -- even though you may not like yourself very much. Also, God sees you as you can be and will become - not just as you are now. God has faith in you and in His ability to make you someone special. Feeling not good enough?  Don't panic. God doesn't love you because you are a good person or do everything right. If you have accepted merciful God nothing can separate you from His love. Due to God's mercy even your sins can't separate you from God. We all sin. We all are forgiven if we confess and repent our sins, and want to do everything in our power to redress the past. In return, you are obliged to  love all the people  and treat other people the way that you would want to be treated. God is the All-Peace, the All-Merciful.  God loves you, but do you love yourself?  No one is going to love you if you don’t love yourself.  It is not your fault if you don't love yourself and you can't love other people, and because of it no one loves you. Many of us have been taught to hate ourselves, to consider ourselves less equal and to think our needs are not important—just by the very act of abuse. The act of neglect, of sexual or physical abuse, and of ritual abuse all carry the message that we weren't worthy of loving, compassionate treatment. If we received verbal or emotional abuse that told us even more overtly that we were worthless, trash, or to be hated, well, those messages just piled up inside. Abusers often foster or encourage self-hate messages, because it makes their victims more compliant and easy to abuse. ...but those messages aren't true. They are tools used by abusers to break spirits and continue abuse. To start loving yourself, you need to make a list of your assets. On the top of the list, put your finest assets, particularly the unrenewable ones. Is virginity still among them?  more

Itshitshi limnandi itshitshi limnandi njengoshukela
(a virgin is sweet, a virgin is sugar sweet)

Johnny Clegg & Juluka - Tatazela 1997

(on You Tube)

Lyrics
Love Is Just A Dream (Tatazela)

!الوقوف ضد ثقافة الموت
Stand against the culture of death!
!وقف التجريد من الإنسانية
Stop dehumanization!

VIRGIN WARS

 
Reason # 8
Be patient, know how to become top apple.

“Women are like apples on trees, the best ones are on the top of the tree. The men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and don't want to get hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't so good but easy. So, the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top because they value quality.”- Author unknown, but sounds sexist. Why not add:  “Men are like apples on trees, the best ones are on the top of the tree. The women don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and don't want to get hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't so good but easy. So, the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right woman to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top because they value quality.”  more

I haven't been married yet. No wonder I'm still a virgin.

 World Marriage Day Mass Honors Long-Married Couples 

Reason # 9
Be steadfast,  know how to be faithful to your past, present and future own self.

Virginity. The essence of adolescence.

ALL VIRGINS' DAY
early September

The Zulu Kings Reed Dance at eNyokeni Palace, uMkhosi woMhlanga,  early  September

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Swaziland
sub-national HIV prevalence among 15 to 49 years old [%]
HIV sentinel surveillance in pregnant women
last WHO data


Lesotho
sub-national HIV prevalence among 15 to 49 years old [%]
HIV sentinel surveillance in pregnant women
last WHO data



South Africa
sub-national HIV prevalence among 15 to 49 years old [%]
HIV sentinel surveillance in pregnant women
last WHO data

This doom-propheting Reed Dance participant said in isiZulu:
"We shall all die of AIDS not knowing who has infected us,
like those reeds which do not know who had cut them up."

How many of the 2000 Reed Dancers are still alive?

 South Africa 2011: 56,000 reported rape cases

if one in twenty five rapes are reported
the total number of rapes per year would be 1,456,000
(56,000 reported + 1,400,000 unreported)
1 rape every 22 seconds

if one in twenty rapes are reported
the total number of rapes per year would be 1,176,000
(56,000 reported + 1120000 unreported)
1 rape every 27 seconds

Sesingaqala manje kangcono kunakuqala
Now we can start better than before

Reason # 10
 Be distinct,  know the difference.

Virgin is a person who has never had sexual intercourse  Sexual intercourse (also called coitus, or copulation) is reproductive act in which the male reproductive organ enters the female reproductive tract. If the reproductive act is complete, sperm cells are passed from the male body into the female, in the process fertilizing the female egg and forming a new organism.  Sexual intercourse is sex, but "sex" is not limited to intercourse; not even limited, in fact, to genital activities. In reality, "sex" describes a huge range of activities. This is half of a dialectic: many things can be sex because sex has whatever meaning we experience moment by moment; and sex has an infinite range of meanings because the scope of activities that can properly be called sexual is so vast.”  One of the best-known sound bites of Bill Clinton’s presidency was denial: “I did not have sexual relations with that woman”. Clinton later stated that he believed the agreed-upon definition of sexual relations excluded his receiving oral sex. NB. All penetrative sex (where the penis enters the vagina, mouth, or anus) carries risk of STIs for both, lessened to some extent by condoms. There are no medical signs and symptoms of male or female virginity with one exception, which is presence of the halat hymen at the opening of the vagina. The hymen is a body part, also known as virginal membrane, it is a tight or loose and flexible rim, fringe of tissue around the vaginal opening that partly covers the entrance to the vagina of a virgin. While the professionally detected presence of a certain type of intact hymen indicates virginity, the absence of one is definitely not a proof a woman is not a virgin.  An innocent, pure, or prudent virgin can be robbed of her virginity and remain innocent, pure, or prudent. However virgins rarely are asexual. Sexually active virgins have nothing to do with innocence, purity, or prudence but still preserve their virginity. Until marriage. If lucky. And wise. more

There are no medical signs and symptoms of male or female virginity
with one exception, which is presence of the halat hymen at the opening of the vagina.

While the professionally detected presence of a certain type of intact hymen indicates virginity,
the absence of one is definitely not a proof a woman is not a virgin.

Dr Halat’s arguments against non-professional virginity testing.

A virgin. Is his/her V-card fraudulent or genuine?
A fraud is an intentional deception made for personal gain.

Penipuan-bukti selaput dara - halat selaput dara yang sangat berharga, maka melindunginya sampai menikah (berkahwin).
Fraud-proof hymen - halat hymen is very valuable, so protect it until marriage.

 Reason # 11
Be a winner, know better than losers.

There are many ways to sluttify virgins. A gang rape to make an abducted virgin ready for prostitution is the way generally considered most outrageous. The rape victim's coping  mechanisms rarely make the trauma bearable. Even drugs, alcohol and forced sex fail to erase memories of normal life and morals. Logically, virgins coerced into prostitution are prostitutes but not sluts. The other pole of the sluttification process is linked to incest. There are two kinds of incest:  direct incest, which is overt sexual activity between family members other than spouses; and indirect incest, the providing of children by their parents to others in order for them to be sexually abused. Parents and guardians who allow their child to be abused by other family members, friends, acquaintances, caretakers or teachers, as well as by entertainment industry products, the schooling system, and public space exhibitions and events, are as much responsible for ruined lives as those who commit direct incest.  Thus parents and guardians are guilty of premature and therefore forced sexualization of their young ones, who become addicted to sexual gratification offered and/or witnessed by paedophiliacs.  Too early and unnecessarily discovered power of sexual pleasure undermines the age-appropiate education and formation, opens wide the gates to promiscuity, pornography, drugs, alcohol, gambling, shopping and many other deadly addictions. Addicts are easy to manipulate. This is why sluttification from the cradle is so eagerly supported by corrupted elites and tycoons. Along with discovering sexual gratification other rewards in exchange for sexual favours are desired. There are entertainments, gifts, and money. Not knowingly a sluttified virgin turns into an underage prostitute. In such an destructive environment, more sooner than later a virgin loses his or her virginity. A prematurely devirginized child or adolescent becomes a community role model, noxious to human health and well-being, infinitely magnified by mass media scorn for virgins waiting until marriage. These virgins who enjoyed a privilege of having good parents and guardians and were efficiently protected from forced sexualization until maturity, and their virginity hasn't been robbed nor stolen, can finally decide if they want to lose or offer their virginity.  more

 You are not a piece of flesh. You are a human being.

Who is your spiritual leader? Who is your opinion maker?
A dehumanized dehumanizator? A religious intellectual?

WORLD DAY
FOR THE PREVENTION OF CHILD ABUSE
19th November

Fyah Muma (Queen Ifrica):
My music is music of upliftment.
 It is music that teaches. It shows you how not to complain,
but to seek solutions for yourself

Daddy
(on You Tube)

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Reason # 12
Be supported, know how to find a helping hand.

The human being can hardly live on without friends. If they are people of goodwill, your friends will offer you moral and psychological support on your way from the family you were born and grown up in to the family you will establish with your future spouse. What if, at the end of the day, your friends you relied on prove malicious or simply stupid? Never forget the famous Latin phrase "Multi multa, nemo omnia novit (many know many things; no one knows everything)" and in case you are forced by your best friends to do something you really hate, just say “no” and consult someone else. Whom? Your priest or imam, your family member, or any other person of strong opinions you can trust with all your secrets and you don’t risk being rejected or exploited. You are not alone! Find information on the internet  to see how many people globally share exactly the same challenge you have. They share your challenges and they get contradictory advice. Much of the advice does not fit to your ideals, beliefs and ethics, much is just full of rudeness, contempt, trickery and other forms of dignity violation. Do not take a risk of being trapped by mentally disturbed minds, mentally ill persons, hiding their medical conditions and/or already diagnosed psychotics. Raunchiness: obscenity – vulgarity – promiscuity is a top warning symptom of a possible mental disorder. Finally you would like to discuss your challenges in a supportive group of peers. This is what Virgins until Marriage - Civil Society Organization of  the African Union and the European Union is created for. more

Raunchiness: obscenity – vulgarity – promiscuity 
is a top warning symptom of a possible mental disorder.



United we stand, divided we fall. Unite, virgins until marriage!

 Reason # 13
 Be wise, know the essentials of a good life since knowledge is power.

What does medical epidemiology approved research say?

Some controversies will be dealt with here.

(A) Virginity testing

Dr Halat’s arguments against non-professional virginity testing

Dr Halat's arguments against non-professional virginity testing www.healthriskmanagement.eu		Actual condition
		Virgin = never had coitus	Ex virgin = had coitus at least once
“Virginity test” result	Tested virgin	True positive intact hymen	Type I error False positive Main reasons: Elasticity of the hymen (certain types) i. e. the hymen regains its shape after inserting a penis Healed hymen tear Post-coital healing of the hymen with no or hardly detectable scarring Anatomical abnormalities of the vulva Diseases of the vulva including sexually transmitted diseases and other infections   Constriction of the perineal muscles voluntary or unconscious) visibly bringing the torn tissue together Induced vaginal tightness Inserted object faking hymen (so called fake hymen) Post-coital reconstruction of the hymen hymen stitching aka hymenorrhaphy, or reconstructive hymenoplasty
	Not tested virgin	Type II error False negative Main reasons: Persistent hymenal non-coital dilatation (digital, instrumental) i. e. the hymen remains stretched after inserting a finger or an object Hymenal non-coital laceration (digital, instrumental, crotch injury) i. e. the hymen has been healed with detectable scarring after tearing with a finger or an object  (e. g. a tampon) or an extremely rare penetrating crotch injury involving   a damage to the vulva Hymenal atrophy (atrophy is the partial or complete wasting away of a part of the body) disputable, probably non-existent Hymenal aplasia (aplasia is the absence of all or part of an organ) only as a part of congenital absence of vagina and vulva	True negative Persistent hymenal post-coital dilatation i. e. the hymen remains stretched after inserting a penis Hymenal post-coital laceration   i. e. the hymen has not been healed after tearing with a penis or has been healed with detectable scars

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All women are born with a hymen.
A congenital absence of hymen exceptionally occurs, however is extremely rare as a part of severe genital  malformations:
Q52.0 Congenital absence of vagina
 Q52.7 Congenital absence of vulva

International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems 10th Revision Version for 2007 ( ICD -10 )
 Chapter XVII:
Congenital malformations, deformations
and chromosomal abnormalities (Q00-Q99)
: Q52.0 Congenital absence of vagina
: Q52.7 Congenital absence of vulva

There are many different types of hymens.
Typical tornable / stretchable hymens  can be torn with finger(s), object(s), and penis(es)
and if torn they remain torn and present notches  / clefts or they heal with scars hardly detectable
without specialist testing techniques



Typical tornable / stretchable hymen
 

 Two types of hymens that stand at opposite poles
as regards their value in professional virginity testing
are described below.

 
Typical  elastic hymen
can be stretched with fingers(s), object(s), and penis(es) and regains its original shape sooner or later after.
Stretching the elastic hymen with a finger or an object does not end virginity.
Stretching the elastic hymen with a penis ends virginity.

Because the elastic hymen regains it shape sooner or later after stretching(s)  the regular medical examination results are inconclusive, 
some specialist testing techniques are available though.

Typical  elastic hymen

 
Fraud-proof hymen  - halat hymen
has sieve openings or a partitioned opening,
and if found on medical examination is an indisputable proof of virginity.
Like any other type of hymen the halat hymen can be torn with a finger, object, and penis.
Tearing the halat hymen with a penis ends virginity.
Tearing the halat hymen with a finger or an object does not end virginity but deprives the virgin
of her indisputable proof of virginity.

Fraud-proof hymen - halat hymen

The imperforate, cribriform, and septate hymens frequencies of occurrence differ considerably due to variety of interrelated genetic and environmental factors influencing the reproductive system development. The global average estimated from scarce medical evidence could range from 3 % to 4 %. In some populations the imperforate hymen can be diagnosed in 0.1 % of newborns and requires a small surgical intervention as soon as possible after birth to enable undisturbed development of the genital tract and save the girl from unnecessary suffering and embarrassment in case the surgery would be postponed until she develops signs and symptoms of hematocolpos during puberty. If the surgery is properly done and well documented, the patient reaching her marriageable age enjoys the same opportunities of offering her husband a fraud-free hymen as other halat hymen gifted women do.

The hymen

(B) Genital mutilation

Gender  disparities in lifetime rate of solo masturbation and coitus

14-year-olds:
boys: solo masturbation 62.6%, coitus 2.2%
girls: solo masturbation 43.3%, coitus 12.2%

16-year-olds:
boys: solo masturbation 78.1%, coitus 20.4%
girls: solo masturbation 47.3%, coitus 32.1%

Source of data:
National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior
Center for Sexual Health Promotion
JSM Volume 7, Supplement 5, October  2010

(C) Masturbation

Innocent? No.
Pure? No.
Prudent? No.

(D) Condom use
coming soon
(E) HPV Vaccination
coming soon

(F) Genital Self Examination

Intact hymen continuity of the hymenal rim smooth, non-interrupted rim of hymen no scarring, attenuation seen no notches, clefts, bumps seen clear lacy hymenal vasculature the velamentous delicate border no fresh or healed lacerations (i.e. tears) seen	Broken hymen, torn hymen, 'popped cherry' residua of a torn hymen also known as hymenal remnants also known as myrtiform caruncles also mistakenly known as "hymenal tags" Latin: carunculae hymenales,                 carunculae myrtiformes
Hymenal cleft  Hymenal transection at 6 o'clock complete cleft also known as hymenal transection at 8 o'clock cleft extending through more than half of the width of the hymen	Narrow, assymetrical hymenal opening Attenuated hymenal posterior rim Narrow, assymetrical, distorted shape of the hymenal opening attenuated hymenal posterior rim (rubbed or worn away by chronic abuse)

(G) Kegel exercise
coming soon
(H) Control of sexuality

 

The three dams strategy of control of sexuality
Rivers of life before junction.
Innocence (what is sex?)
Purity (no sex)
Prudence (no direct contact sex)
Virginity (no penis -  in -  vagina sex).

Can people control their sexuality? Yes, they can.
The vast majority of people do control their sexuality.
 Control of sexuality

(I) My judgement of reasons why have sex

  Reason # ...

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